Teen Dating Violence

Did you know, 20% of Canadian teens report experiencing physical violence in their relationship? 35% of Canadian teens report experiencing emotional & psychological violence (youthdatingviolence.prevnet.ca). Teen dating violence can include intimidation, stalking, sexual coercion, reproductive coercion, isolation, and violence.
Youth relationship violence is associated with unplanned teen pregnancy, increased risk of sexually transmitted diseases, poor mental health, increased risk of substance abuse, and other poor health outcomes.

By sharing information, increasing awareness, and offering support, we can work together as a community in True North’s overall mission of interrupting the cycle of violence through empowerment, to create a safe environment for all.

What Can Teen Dating Violence Look Like?

In Canada, more than 45% of teens (aged 15-17) have experienced a form of dating violence. Teen dating violence is a community issue – impacting the lifelong health and well-being of our young people and increasing the risk of unhealthy relationships experienced in adulthood (StatsCan, 2024-03-20).
Oftentimes, we may find ourselves thinking of relationship violence in terms of only obvious physical assault, but violence can also be emotional, coercive, isolating, and controlling. Teen dating violence may look like violating one’s privacy or using feelings of guilt or shame to coerce someone into unwanted sexual activity. While not as obvious to observe, these unhealthy behaviours are dangerous and harmful.
Learn more about the signs of abuse. Talk to your teens – your sons and daughters – about unhealthy relationships and where they can go if they need support.

Cyber Violence a Growing Problem

Cyber (online) violence is the use of internet-connected devices and/or social media to intentionally cause harm to others. According to Statistics Canada, 1 in 5 women experience online harassment in Canada; 33% of those are young women between the ages of 15 and 24 (Government of Canada, 2022).

Teen Dating Violence is often perpetuated digitally, through text, social media, and other networking apps (like Snapchat). Cyber violence may look like hacking, impersonation, monitoring, or sharing rumours/gossip in order to humiliate and isolate an individual in daily life.

What can caregivers do?

  • Be active in your teen’s cyber usage. Be aware of what they’re watching, who they’re talking to, and what they might be sharing.
  • Foster a safe space that your teen feels comfortable going to for help and support.
  • Talk about healthy & unhealthy relationships and challenge negative images/themes that might support violence.
  • Listen and give nonjudgmental support; if your teen opens up about experiencing cyber violence, reassure them that no one deserves to experience abuse (even if they’ve made a mistake)

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